Membership
There is no paid tier that buys your way in. Membership is granted through invitation trees, verified careers and the reputation you keep once you're inside.
Fast lane
A member has spent one of their limited invitations on you. Your application skips the queue and is reviewed inside 72 hours. Codes expire if unclaimed.
Reverse graph
We check your number against members' hashed contacts. If enough people in the room already have you saved, you move up the list without asking anyone for a favour.
The list
Join the waitlist with your career and intent. Each cohort opens a fixed number of seats, and a member may open the door for you at any time.
Dues
Applying costs nothing. Once you're admitted, one membership carries the entire experience — discovery, the contact graph, Radar, the 48-hour engine — for $79 a month or $639 a year. Every membership opens with seven days free, beginning the day your application is accepted.
The whole proposition. Nothing important held back.
$639
per year, billed annually — $53.25/mo equivalent
7 days free
Status, priority and access — not gated basics.
$1,029
per year, billed annually — $85.75/mo equivalent
7 days free
The first 2,500 in a market. Then it closes.
$299
$399 / year — locked for life
Launch cohort only
Trials are one per member and require a card on file so the room stays real. Cancel before day seven and you are never charged — we email you on day five either way.
Finding someone shouldn't end your membership. When you link partners, one shared plan replaces two: double dates with other verified couples, anniversary reservations, club access, travel and relationship events. $149 adds a dedicated concierge for two.
You cannot purchase a Vibe Index, a verification badge or an invitation. Vibe 80+ earns extra invitations, 90+ earns premium event access, and consistent post-date conduct earns sponsor privileges. Flaking takes them away.
Applying is free — always
Invitation, application, verification, acceptance, then membership. Membership is earned; access is paid. We will never charge you to be considered.
Annual is the point — save ~33%
$79 a month is $948 a year. Annual is $639 — $53.25 a month. Committing for a year tells the room you're actually here to participate.
Couples Mode — $99 per couple, per month
When you go official the product changes, not disappears: double dates, anniversary reservations, club access and travel. $149 with full concierge.
Invitations are earned, never sold
Core gets 3 a year, Black 7. A Vibe Index above 80 unlocks more; above 90 unlocks premium events. Repeated flaking reduces your capacity. Trust is the currency.
Experiences — priced per seat
Member dinners from $50, curated experiences $150–$500, weekend and destination experiences beyond. À la carte, open to every tier.
No boosts. No coins. Ever.
Black makes the experience better; it never makes ordinary members invisible. Visibility is earned through your Vibe Index and real dates.
Verification
We verify identity and profession — never financial documents. Career and industry are confirmed through professional records, corroborated by a work-email check where needed. Invite depth is visible on every profile, so the room polices itself.
Vibe Index
A 0–100 reputation earned from real dates, not app activity. It decides how visible you are and which experiences unlock.
+15
Completing a first date
+20
Respectful post-date feedback
+5
Verification and fast replies
−30
Late cancels and no-shows
Every invitation is attributable. Sponsors carry a share of their guests' conduct — a pattern of no-shows or reports flows back up the tree and slows the sponsor's own invitations. It's the simplest curation mechanism we know.
What happens when it worksIf there's no chain yet, join the list — a member may open the door.
Request an invitation